About Me

I am Xan, but who IS Xan? There is no amount of words to truly answer that question. The best way to describe me is simply I’m ME – a unique individual just like any of the 7 billion+ people on this planet.

I’m 30-some-odd-years-old but that’s just the amount of time that I’ve spent on this planet in this life. It shouldn’t reflect my intelligence. It should also not reflect if I’m childish or mature. This number changes every year and I’ve known some very wise and mature “young” people and some very stupid and petty “old” people.

I am a writer well, at least I call myself a writer. I love to write but I’ve never sold anything as of yet and I don’t really know if I ever will but I still write. I don’t always write for the world to see but love to let my muses out from time to time and when I muse I muse a lot.

Funny fact: I don’t spell well but ever since I started writing on-line my spelling has improved a lot.

To some I have a very warped sense humor and I can be rather… vulgar and extremely blunt from time to time. In other words, if you’re easily offended or triggered by bad language, homosexuality, off color jokes, bad spelling/grammar, rants or ANYTHING that one can take as offensive I’d suggest you don’t read anything I have posted for I’m not always that good at warning others about it being… off in any way. Hell, if you’re super easily offended I’d suggest just stepping away from the internet all together.

I’m also a non-practicing Eclectic Wiccan… or at least I’m Wiccan-ish. I call myself a “Witch” but I don’t fallow any one way really. I just take what I believe in from many religions. shrug I guess I’m just me. If you want to know more about this then just ask I’ll more than likely tell you.

I used to call myself “bisexual” because like both men and women but I have to say I’m more pan sexual. Meaning that I think an attractive person is an attractive person… gender plays no real roll in it. I’m far more attracted to personalities than looks to be honest. I AM very picky as to who I’ll get into a relationship (friend or partner) with.

I know a bit of many languages such as Spanish, German, Japanese, Italian, Latin and several other languages. Other than English I know Japanese the best.

I want to travel the world and get to know a few people on the way! I have traveled to most of America and now I’m ready to visit other places. I love the culture but to truly experience a culture I feel that one must see it for themselves.

Anyway… if you can’t handle my insanity, ranting, the occasional use of other languages, vulgarity and/or off color humor then I say don’t even bother trying to get to know me. No hard feelings, but I really don’t want anyone to stumble across this accidentally or not so accidentally and start bitching at me for the way I express myself. I’m fine with you sharing your options with me. As a matter of fact, I love to hear what others have to say all I ask if that you respect me and I’ll do the same for you. ^_^

If you’re cool with this and the fact that I’m not the sanest being in the cosmos (nor are my friends/family), then feel free to look or tell me what you think hell, you can even try to befriend me if you find me interesting. I am a very open-minded person and I enjoy hearing form others (yes even if you don’t agree with my POV) as I said just be respectful.

With this said I hope you take the time to get to know ME. I look forward to letting others into my new life. I hope you stay for a while and know this everyone leaves their mark on the pages of life.